Spring Break 10

I had to start off with a Beverly "signature" shot of the boys holding hands with their backs to me...

I completed my first tri-mester at St.

Catherine's University (straight A's on all assignments handed in for both classes, might I add) and the boys finished their last day of school...which meant, it was time to celebrate! The boys and I had 1 week off for Spring Break, which was a welcomed break.

Especially, with the wave of strep throat that swept our household. I had my first case of strep throat ever back in mid-February, only to get it again and then poor Nishad got it was well (apparently, there were a lot of cases in his school). In addition, we had Tiger at Urgent Care because he scratched his eye at school. They gave him ointment and he is fine now. We also had his 2 year wellness visit (albeit a little late) where his new pediatrician gave him a happy clean bill of health. She mentioned that Nishad was tall, but it just may be possible that Tiger will be even taller than Nishad (both our boys are going to over tower us- which is fine with me!). Oh, and we can't forget the doctor visit on behalf of Nishad's ear. Both my babies have never had an earache (knock-on-wood), so I thought in

stantly when Nishad complained of his ear, it unfortunately struck. However, after going to the doctor, we found out that he has impacted ear wax. Which, was frustrating as doctors in the past have told us "he's a waxy guy" and it's not an issue. Well, it became an issue. The hardened wax would enlarge when water seeped in which was very painful. This explains why he loves swim class, but didn't like to float on his back. So, all in all, we made about 6 trips in one month to the doctor's office or urgent care. I felt like we were on a first name basis.

The boys had a fantastic time in the Dells! At first, I thought of driving to Chicago, but because I would be by myself and it was an 8 hour trip, I decided to pass on that. I found an amazing water park/hotel that is wonderful because it is p-e-r-f-e-c-t for the ages that our boys are! The decore is a bit dated (as many things are in the Dells), but it's clean, at a great location and it has a great indoor (and outdoor) water park! The boys and I played miniature golf at Timerland which only cost us $7.50 because they were free. We went to Alligator Alley (a reptile museum) that cost $13.85 for admission (Tiger was free) and food for the gators with a 35% off coupon. I left there feeling sad for the reptiles. They are in cramped spaces and the water is pretty dirty. The boys did get to see reptiles up close, but you really didn't get a sense that the people that worked here really cared for these creatures. You could even buy a live rat or a mouse and watch it be killed/eaten by the reptiles. We bought stake to fed them- but that was still disturbing. I would pass on Alligator Alley. We played at the indoor Kalahari Amusement Park (it's open to the general public) which only had one ride the kids were tall enough to go on (I went on it as well) which was the Ferris wheel for $6.00. In addition we played some games for $10.00 and won some really cheap plastic toys. We visited a free zoo in Barbaboo which is only 10 miles out from the Dells. I don't recommend it. It's really small and they have a beer, goose (not kidding), a few white tailed deer, two monkeys, prairie dogs and a goat. Near the zoo is a circus world museum. We didn't venture that far out. If you wanted to "get away" from the Dells (as it can get quite chaotic), you could have a picnic lunch at Mirror Lake, which is on the way. When Ashish and I were dating, we rented a boat there- it was a lot of fun and quite beautiful. Of course, Moosejaw's was still "the" place to eat in our kids eyes! Where else can you have your food delivered to you via train?

Ashish joined us on Thursday! Friday morning we went on the Duck ride, which was $40 for Ashish and I (the kids were free). They told the same jokes they were telling since I was a kid. ha! One thing I took note of was how built up everything has become. I recall being a kid and being on the Ducks on the Wisconsin River and it felt like you were the only ones out there. Not anymore. Cabins and houses are built up against the river and there is a lot of traffic on the river. We also visited Deer Park on it's opening day. It was $40 for all of us, plus $2. per bag of food for the deers and goats.

We experienced our first 80-degree day while in the Dells! We came back refreshed, ready for Easter and a good home cooked meal (as eating out does start to get old after awhile).

Tiger

Spring in Feb

Seriously...who couldn't use a little "Spring" in the middle of winter? Tiger and I feasted with our eyes upon the vibrant colors! The air was fragrant with the sweetest of lilies and azaleas. It gave me a sense of hope that Spring...new beginnings...was soon on it's way. Well, at least in another 4 months for those of us that live in Minnesota. If only there were 6 weeks of winter left! Mr. Groundhog, perhaps that is true for the rest of the country. However, it's not true here. It's not that it's been a particularly cold winter, but it's been a long winter. Our first snow was October 13th. Things can always be worse- and as I've learned, much, much colder. So, I shall remove myself from my soap box. What a great treat the Como Conservatory blesses us with! Tiger and I enjoyed some one-on-one time here today for lunch, a visit to the animals and lots of hugs and kisses!

A fairy landed just in time for me to snap a picture.

A little curtsy before the Queen.

Little Gymnast

Happy as can be with a spring in his step- Nishad loves gymnastics. He's already swinging around on the bars (spotted) and completes his pass on the high beam unassisted. He's set to go, enrolled in the next session until Spring. It certainly keeps him busy, and us on our toes. He likes swim class as well, which, regardless, living in a state that as so much water, it's necessary that he learn. So, it's a good thing that he enjoys it. In the last few weeks, he's shown a desire to learn to ice skate so he can play hockey. He's not even started his "official" pre-school year, and he's busy, busy, busy!

Merry Theatre!

We met up with the J's in Minneapolis and kicked off the winter break with Zenon Dance Company's, "A Mother goose Nutcracker." Positioned right in the front row, the boys got to see all the action and muscle flexing up close. They set all of Tchaikovsky's music to "modern" choreography, with the introduction of each song being told to a fairy tail. A very creative and a very talented, professional company made this an experience that we look forward to attending again next year! I love when company's engage children and give them the opportunity to appreciate the arts from an early age.

I recall the first theatre performance Nishad saw-- he was only 18 months old. Nervous mother was I, "Will he sit through the show?"..."What if he cries?"..."What if he begins to speak during the performance?" He did none of that- he watched with eyes as big as half dollars. I prepared him prior to the show though, so he knew what to expect. The Flint Hill Children's Festival held in Saint Paul, Minnesota (which will be held June 1-6 this year) offers a great opportunity to expose your child to various arts and theatre performances. Made possible through sponsorship through Target, international theatre performances are offered to the general public at $5 a ticket. The tickets do sell out fast (I purchased out tickets for Eric Carle's, "The Very Quiet Cricket" last year almost 2 months in advance).

It's important for kids to attend different types of performances as well-- not "just" children's theatre. Given children's theatre IS a great start-- especially, if you want to test the waters with your little one. In addition, you want to be respectful of other patrons, and be selective with your topics-- this may not be the time to introduce your 3 year old to "Cabaret."

Both boys attend the Minnesota Orchestra (Tiger and Nishad recently attended the 2 1/2 hour long "Hansel and Gretel" performance, which was beautiful.) When Tiger wants to switch from seat to seat, or my lap to Ashish's and there is an occasional look, I just keep in mind that "we paid as much as anyone else for our seats." And, in this case, it is a children's show. A nice bonus of attending a children's performance is that prior to the show, the lobby is filled with instruments for the kids to try out and learn about.

I do recall when a friend and I took both of the boys to a performance at the Minneapolis Children's Theatre to see "Bert and Ernie Say Goodnight." Her son said something and a man in the back of us "shushed" her son. I turned my head and gave him a look-- seriously, this isn't Les Mis and YOU sir at AT a children's theatre. No "sush" rule applies here in this theatre. Be sure to sign up for updates via e-mail. They have lots of "buy one get one" deals or half off tickets. You'll also learn about special events and classes offered.

note: Photo by City Pages

Red, White and Blue

Though they all came into the court room as citizens from different countries, they all left as citizens from the same country...the United States of America. Though A entered this country a little over 10 years ago, his journey to this moment in time, began long before then. It isn't surprising that he would become a citizen, as one of the characteristics that defines successful Americans is a "hard worker." Another characteristic, "determined."

Born in a hut, on a stormy night, the first born son, his name would mean "blessing." There were no doctors, scales or a way to document this event. His last name came from a teacher who named him, as he didn't have one. It would be years later when his brother would enroll in school that they would learn of the family name, "Kathwal." Accelerated through school, at a grade level higher than what he should have been, he graduated with a degree in computer science. He was offered a full scholarship to get his masters, but his parents refused to let him as they needed him to provide for "the family" and pay for his younger siblings education. He and his brother would work side by side, without anyone ever knowing that they were brothers, as they both had different last names. He speaks of times when he use to lead his Grandfather's buffalo's on his farm, the times when he would avoid getting powder in his face on Holi, and how they would sing Christmas carols. Yes, Christmas carols. Though his mother was Hindu, his father was converted into Christianity. He would speak of the times when his Dad would sleep all the time and play cards. He would convey how he and his brother would go with his Mom to the market to carry all the bags back. Rice was a staple in their diet.

With the first pay check he made, he surprised his mother and bought her a beautiful silk sari. One of the first things that she showed me when I met her in October of 2003 was a big diamond nose ring that she said Ashish also bought her. When his father said she was sick and he wasn't going to take care of her, he went and got his mother and brought her here to seek medical treatment. He was always a good son to the lady who gave him life.

He came to this country with $500, one suitcase and a job offer. A job that he interviewed for back in India. He didn't know anyone here or have any "connections." Yet, he and I, found one another. We grew up on opposite sides of the world, we had vastly different up bringing and childhoods...but here we are, together, married now for 6 years...together for 8 years.

In many ways, he is an inspiration...he started from the ground up and built all he has single handedly--well, with my help some years down the road (ha,ha). Educated and open minded, he respected his "traditions" but didn't let culture bind him or stunt his growth. When his parents wanted him to get an arranged marriage, he didn't--stating that he was going to marry me. I can only imagine the strength it took to stand up for what you believe in and go against generations of "traditions."

The road he has traveled has not been paved with gold...there have been some speed bumps. However, here he stands...in my eyes, no pedestal could do him justice. He is mine and I am his- without the limitation of this life, but rather "forever." What can I say? I simply can not resist him- so handsome, so smart...what a perfect combination.

Congrats, to a most well-deserving man! This is something you did on your own, without any suggestion of mine...You now have a voice in the country that you in, have a family, own a house at, paid taxes to....though you've been here for almost 11 years, "WELCOME!" It was an honor to witness something that we "born" into this country take for granted so easily. It was especially touching to see the people stand that were becoming citizens from Iraq and Afghanistan. All in all, a very moving experience...an experience that reminded me to be a proud American. How proud we were to sit there and witness such a special day.

Rawring into 2

Mr. Tiger turned 2 years old on October 30th. However, we were a little behind with getting his photos done--but, when you are 2, what is time anyway? Days are filled with fun and nights are to be explored! Tiger is our happy-go-lucky, singer that loves to "work" and help. He adores Nishad and has a few friends he is very fond of at school. He's so smart, funny and has the most contagious laugh. I know it's "harder" to rear little boys than little girls, however, Tiger and Nishad have been such a joy to rear...it's a honor to call them our sons. Happy Birthday, Little Tiger! We sure do love you!!

Woo-Woo Choo-Choo

Kickin' off the Season!

Nothing like a little Brotherly Love to make you Melt

All the Mommy's with their babies...minus Mr. Nishad.
Such cuties! Life doesn't get any cuter than this!

This past weekend we painted the town red. We booked a room at the Hyatt in Minneapolis for some "downtown" fun! our room was on the 6th floor so we had a sliding door/private patio that led directly to the pool- very cool! We started off eating lunch at the most fantastic Thai place; Swatdee. Tiger has a new favorite cuisine. He couldn't get enough of the Thai food. Ashish is super excited as they offer cooking classes! He took a few different ones in the past offered through Byerly's, but this sounds right up his alley!

We then headed over to the Mill City Museum where we learned how to feel like a proud Minnesotan, rich in history. The name Minnesota actually came from the Native American word Minnehaha. The Mill City Museum is on a great location, however, I don't recommend the "Flour Tour" for younger toddlers. Tiger was quite scared on the freight elevator and it was rather loud.

After we went back to the hotel and relaxed a bit before heading out to dinner at Salsa a la Salsa. This by far is the best Mexican food I have tasted since Chicago. As a matter of fact, this is the second time this month that I ate here. Shhhh! ha,ha. J took me here for my birthday- so I have her to blame! She shared with me that the chef actually cooked for Julia Roberts.

At 6PM, we made it to the corner of Nicollet Mall and 12th St, where we "saved" a spot for the D's and H's to meet up with us for Hollidazzle! It was a packed parade route, but luck was on our side. We were right at the start of the parade. The weather was perfect and the company- FANTASTIC! After the parade we summed up the night with hot-chocolate and a stroll down the street to take in all the lights. We are so glad the D's and the H's met up with us.

The following day, Tiger and I started off our day with breakfast at "The New's Room" while Ashish and Nishad took a swim. Tiger had the "flip Jack's" while I enjoyed the cranberry-pecan French toast. Hey, "EAT ALL ABOUT IT!" ha. There are tons of flat screens and the walls are covered with "newspaper" wallpaper and between the glass inside the tables you can read antique newspapers. Very neat. I also enjoyed all the Chicago Bear's fans that were downtown for the game.

We all met up and went to Macy's "In the Life of an Elf" and even picked out our annual "special" ornaments there. This year Nishad picked a baby kitten and Tiger picked up a zebra. Of course, in accordance to my tree, I found two little Irish dancers that will do a merry jig on my tree this year.

It wasn't long before it was time to head over to Minnesota Orchestra Hall's production of "Hansel and Gretel." It started at 2PM and was 2 hours long. This was Tiger's first orchestra performance~ Nishad has become an old pro and just loves attending performances. As a matter of fact, he didn't want to leave. The puppets that were in the show were so beautiful- so visually inspiring!

By the time we made it home, it was around 5PM and all of us were pooped! However, this was an excellent way to kick off the season. And, what's better than to be blessed enough to have some excellent friends to do it with!

Busy Times

Busy, doesn't fully describe the Kumar Household! With the boys in school, Ashish taking on a new role at UHG and my photography business we've been on quite a ride lately! All positive things...but not much "down time." It doesn't look as though we will have any down time soon either with the holidays approaching...and my entry back in school for communications this January (I have assignments due prior to my first day of class.) Though it was a hard decision, I'm really embracing my decision to resign as the Chair of the Otsego Park and Recreation Commission now...there is only so many hours in a day.

Let me say that my birthday was amazing this year as I was able to celebrate throughout the month. My friend J took me "downtown" to a Mexican place. YUM. My friend S took me to French Meadows. YUM. My friend A got sick, so we will have to re-schedule our time together. The cards and birthday wishes were exceptionally sweet this year. It's also SO NICE to be surrounded with real, intelligent, fun and caring friends. After living here for almost 5 years, God as helped me sort out the weeds from the flowers in the garden. Thank You for blessing my garden with colors of joy, hope and such beautiful "local" friendships. I have become so found of MB, JH, LC, JG and SK...right in my own backyard. How lucky am I?! VERY.

Today Nishad was invited to a Princess Birthday Party complete with it's own castle and "ball." It was cute to see all the kids from his class playing and celebrating his friend's milestone. On Monday I'm having breakfast with MB at the Original Pancake House- love their crepes (they have a location in Oak Park...so it reminds me of Chicagoland). We're excited to hang out Tuesday after school with SK and her son at Border's for a little picnic style lunch and books. That night I'm attending a parent night at school. Friday of the same week, I'm serving up a Thanksgiving feast with my Minnesota bestie JH at Nishad's school. So excited!

The Wheels on the Bus Go...

Round and Round and to Minnesota Orchestra Hall!

I made it a point to drop off Mr. Nishad by 8am today at school so I could see him off, paparazzi style, on his first field trip! Though this wasn't the first time he's been to Orchestra Hall (we've taken him since he was little for different performances), it was the first time without Mom or Dad at his side. I normally don't do drop off, so this was a treat for me. He was so proud as he boarded the bus, so full of smiles. He sat next to his best friend, J as J's Mom and I saw them off while waving at the bus. Ashish brought Tiger a bit later just in time to capture J's Mom and I seeing our "babies" off. It must be a Mom thing...

4 Boyhood

The essence of what being a little boy is all about. Happy 4th Birthday, my baby Nishad! This was one very special photo shoot for your Mommy.

I love you, Baby! Happy Birthday!